In this series called “Human emotions”, I am planning
to analyze psychological background of human feelings and their actual stemming
places. One of the most intense emotional states, anger and aggression are the
main problem in various societies. It is highly important to know how anger
emerges in the brain and psychology of humans with the purpose of preventing
these kinds of occurrences.
According to the major articles and findings, anger is
not the primary emotion; rather, it is thought to be a secondary emotion. In a
broader sense, anger and aggression is the defense mechanism of our brains
against any form of pain, including mental and physical. In my opinion, anger
is the natural reaction of humans in case of any interruptions to their targets,
goals and self-interest. Despite being
highly natural, anger has a lot of psychological costs affecting humans`
overall health in a bad manner. For instance, regarding medical side, angry
people tend to live so severe diseases, such as heart attacks, high blood
pressure or even mental disorders. Moreover, aggression has some side effects
on the social portrayal of people, too. Aggressive people are generally
regarded unpleasant in the society and their ideas, regardless of their value,
are ignored because of the way they are told. However, psychological results of
anger can be both positive and negative. The proper amount of aggression allows
humans to feel themselves more comfortable due to the fact that they believe
their anger would solve the disruptions and pain. It is called psychological
comfort. On the other hand, continuous
state of being angry toward others inevitably leads to the mental state in
which a person is not attuned to others` cares, needs and rights; thus, it is
highly probable for him or her to destruct others` liberties to dictate his or
her thoughts. Considering all these, it can be inferred that the drawbacks of
this issue far exceed its positive outcomes. So, how can it be possible to get
rid of our aggression?
Firstly, it is not easy to change routine of emotions
and it demands a huge amount of time allocated for practice in the daily life
situations. In this part, I want to propose my solution based on philosophical
aspects. Seneca, a Roman Stoic philosopher, is often referenced when discussing
anger. In his philosophy the aim of which was bringing a true happiness to
humans` lives, anger had always been regarded destructive natural force of
humans and hugest barrier to being truly happy. Seneca was holding the view
that human brain can control its most intense feelings, even anger. By the same
token, he suggested us key things to be implemented. Majority of people feel
angry when being subject to any behavior or action unpleasant and detrimental
for their purposes. For Seneca, anger is driven from our shock and surprise at
seeing something bad happening as a result of which unescapable reaction,
aggression, happens. He further concludes his thoughts by arguing that if
humans were pre-prepared to any harmful action and, realistically, understood
that some unpleasant things, problems and barriers were quite possible to be
faced up, the strength of their reaction containing aggression would eventually
go down.In other words, humans become angry because they do not pay attention
to a potential negative result, generally focus on the positive side;
therefore, when something bad and unexpected happens, they begin to be angry,
stressful and full of despair.
To sum up, in the paragraphs above, I did my best to
create the general portrayal of essential human feeling, anger. If you are
desiring to turn aggressive behaviors aside from you, you should begin to
believe that it is not possible to reach a goal without any difficulties and
problems, so be prepared to them for better career path with not aggression.
REFERENCE:
1) Psychology Of Anger, https://www.mentalhelp.net/articles/psychology-of-anger/, HARRY MILLS.
2) Anger and Aggression, https://www.apa.org/topics/anger/index, American Psychological
Association.
3) The Consolations of Philosophy, https://indefenseofbatman.files.wordpress.com/2015/08/alain_de_botton_the_consolations_of_philosophybookzz-org.pdf, Alain De Botton
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